What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence, without a basic type and established result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with regard for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, happy state of being. The result is typically a fantastic physical, mental wellness. Normally, the receiver is really unwinded, splendidly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Although many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the provider are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Full of attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not believe about yesterday or tomorrow. Don't take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very conscious touch from the heart. Receive also really purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are actually out of the question. Whatever happens in the moment, completely consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not intended (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the desired series of rubbing that is essential, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, love constantly has a suitable action. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required. Enough is that the giver is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a really unexpected course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not constantly need to be "fine", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the very first step in a terrific advancement.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We knew it for a long time, of course, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
Everyone (except when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise necessary (read the short article on safeguarding limits. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about mental borders, and also make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also entirely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage becomes part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various techniques to use on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: restoring the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to end up being more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so a lot more. Actually, you "discover" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Due to the fact that this is exactly what happens frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is fully permitted! A tantra massage is typically nice, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to completely enjoy receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous types of massage. Obviously, all massages have specific practices and strategies in typical. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (targeted at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (focused on recovery).
Not Treatment
Well due to the fact that you are truly incredibly energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) minutes.
Need complimentary.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Respect borders, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally because of the Bonuses nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest don't hurry towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery result. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover exactly what it is like to like yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides an incredibly liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may end up being not only happy however even joyous. A thrilled state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).